Posts I Am Enjoying

Hi All!

Here are a few things I am enjoying from around the Web:

  • NobleMother’s series on John Gottman’s book, “Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work”:

Take a peek at this post and follow along: http://www.noblemother.com/2010/08/day-1-creating-a-marriage-that-rocks/

What are you all looking at on the Web?

Many blessings,

Carrie

Aww, Shucks.

This has been a week of people acknowledging the work that goes into “The Parenting Passageway” blog and I just wanted to say thank you to everyone.

This blog, specifically this post on Children and Chores (https://theparentingpassageway.com/2010/08/15/more-regarding-children-and-chores-in-the-waldorf-home/), was mentioned in the September 2010 E-zine by Simplicity Parenting author and expert Kim John Payne.  You can sign up to receive the free monthly E-zines here:  http://simplicityparenting.com/forsimplicityparents.html

I also was one of the blogs voted on and recognized over at The Waldorf Connection as Number Two of “The Best Waldorf Blogs” here:  http://thewaldorfconnection.com/uncategorized/waldorf-homeschooling-best-waldorf-blogs/

It is my fervent hope whether you are a parent seeking simplicity, a parent of small children or older children, a homeschooling parent or a parent whose children go to school, that you will all find something helpful here in this space.

Thank you all again so very much.

Many blessings,

Carrie

The Story Apron

My dear friend and fellow Waldorf Homeschooling mother, Natalie, has been busy making and dreaming about making several  “story aprons” of different types.  She has so inspired me, and I wanted to share that with you all.

One type of apron reminds me of “The Pocket Lady” from our local Waldorf School’s Holiday Faire.  Essentially, the Pocket Lady at the Faire has a long coat made with many pockets filled with little crafted treats that the children can pick.  My friend is making a simpler version of this – taking an apron with pockets, embellishing the pockets with a beautiful design and filling each pocket with a needle-felted creation or nature item that represents a verse or song for her Kindergarten-aged child.  The child gets to pick the pocket and hear the verse or song that goes with the object.  What a cute idea!  A type of apron that may work for something like this would be this one at Dharma Trading Company:  http://www.dharmatrading.com/html/eng/7559578-AA.shtml  or to make your own!

The second kind of apron that we are both dreaming of making is one my friend saw over at Suzanne Down’s beautiful puppetry blog in the following post:  http://junipertreepuppets.com/story-apron-wool-magic-article/ .  You can see a photo of The Story Apron in action here:  http://junipertreepuppets.com/the-power-of-language/   and more pictures here:  http://junipertreepuppets.com/puppet-story-apron-class/

Essentially, my thought was to wet felt a circular, pizza -dish sized wool for the top, to embellish that with dry needle felting and then to sew it onto a silk I have dyed.    My plan is to make an apron  for Fall, Winter and Spring (ie, our school year) and use those seasonal backdrops for a variety of needle-felted puppets.

Has anyone done this and have experience to share?
This is such a lovely idea, thank you so much to my dear friend and to Suzanne Down for the inspiration!

Many blessings,

Carrie

Plans for Waldorf Homeschooling Second Grade

For those of you finishing up Second Grade planning, Eva over at Untrodden Paths has just posted her Second Grade layout of blocks and I thought you all might be interested in how she did it here:  http://untroddenpaths.blogspot.com/2010/08/one-of-veronikas-birthday-presents-was.html

Her blog is beautiful, head on over and say hello!

Jen over at Ancient Hearth also just posted her Second Grade plans here:  http://ancienthearth2.blogspot.com/2010/08/general-plan-for-grade-2.html  She has some great read-alouds that are traditional for Waldorf Grade 2 along with some of my favorites…Peter and Annali and Min!  Yay!

For those of you looking for how I laid out Second Grade, here is a back post to get you started:  https://theparentingpassageway.com/2010/05/21/how-to-plan-waldorf-homeschool-second-grade-part-two/

For those of you who are not aware, there is a Yahoo!Group for mothers planning their Second Grade experiences here:  SecondGradeWaldorf@yahoogroups.com

We have been having a discussion on the Second Grade Yahoo!Group regarding trickster tales…..The next time I do Second Grade, I think I am going to do an entire block of Anansi the Spider tales from the book by Philip Sherlock.  I think I would also add a block of Celtic Fairy Tales (we did Russian Fairy Tales which is also enjoyable!)…   I have some other thoughts as well for the next time around because the child coming up to Second Grade is different than the child who just finished Second Grade.  That is the joy of homeschooling, that we can tailor things to each individual child!

Many blessings,

Carrie

One Mother’s Review of Live Education!

I have no personal experience with Live Education! so I am pleased to offer one of my reader’s experiences with this curriculum for you all to read.  Thank you to Eva, a homeschooling mother of five bilingual children,  for writing this piece.  I think you will find this review to be balanced and interesting not just from the perspective of the curriculum itself but how Eva uses Live Education with her large family.  I love to see how other Waldorf homeschooling families do things, and I love Eva’s blog!  Please do be sure to check out her beautiful bilingual blog here:  www.untroddenpaths.blogspot.com

Review of Live Education!

Live Education! is a Waldorf curriculum for grades kindergarten through 8. It can be used either in a school or a homeschool setting. It was founded in 1997 by Rainbow Rosenbloom, who was later joined by Bruce Bischof. Live Education! offers separate curricula for each grade and provides consultation services and an online community as part of their services. All consultants are trained Waldorf teachers and/or have been involved with Waldorf education for many years. I’m reviewing the first edition of the curriculum, but am aware of some changes and improvements.

Each grade’s curriculum captures the essence of what would be taught in an American Waldorf school, focusing on the main lessons. Main lessons usually comprise the subjects English, mathematics, history, geography, physics, chemistry, and nature studies in grades 1-3; the latter is later divided into botany, zoology, and human studies. Foreign languages, music, art, handwork, woodworking, physical education, and eurythmy are not covered unless they pertain to the main lessons, e.g., learning to play the recorder, or drawing and painting as the artistic part of each subject.

Putting the kindergarten curriculum aside, each grade is organized in a similar fashion. There are several slim booklets dedicated to one topic, but sometimes interwoven with a second topic, especially in the lower grades. The nature studies booklet for grade 2, for example, also contains ideas for math. Ideas are important in this curriculum. Some lessons are spelled out for the teacher, for instance the ones on history in the upper grades, but quite often you find only suggestions for what you might do with a topic. The enables the teacher to truly make the material being covered his or her own. It also helps grant a certain amount of freedom to the teacher and his or her personal circumstances. For some people this is truly inspiring, others might feel at a loss. To get a feel for each grade one has to purchase the material in advance and read through all the booklets before knowing what the grade is about. It is possible to pick up a booklet and start teaching (I have done this after just having had a baby), but one doesn’t really get to know the material well in this way.

Each grade always provides a short description of the development of the student as a person and shows why certain subjects appeal to that age. There are references to Rudolf Steiner’s writings and sometimes to writings of other educators in the Waldorf education tradition. Each grade also suggests how the material could be divided up. The characteristics of a main lesson are discussed in detail for each new level with the three parts of opening activities, lesson presentation, and lesson application. Ideas for the opening activities include reciting poems, math facts, recorder playing, and more. The lesson presentations are quite often laid out in detail to be read or told to the child. Sometimes additional books are recommended or required. Most lessons are followed by lesson activities. These activities are varied, ranging from compositions, drawings, modeling, cooking, and dictation to hands-on projects like making a simple plow. There are many colorful examples and instructions on how to paint certain watercolor pictures or how to make a drawing. In fact, one of Live Education!’s strong points is how well it conveys the artistic element to the user — something which is missing from similar publications. Each grade also has bibliographies, reading lists for children, and other interesting reading suggestions.

The curriculum includes plenty of material, more than I’ve typically been able to cover. Some subjects have more detailed lessons than others. History and the sciences are covered in depth and detail; English and math sometimes get incorporated in other lessons, e.g., in grade 5 you practice composition within your history studies. For math practice some volumes in the Key to Series are used or recommended. I wish there were a similar series to supplement Live Education!’s English lessons. Some children require regular practice to retain new concepts. I have found myself using a few selected titles to give my children added practice in that area. I use Charlotte Mason type materials or sequentially organized materials depending on the learning style of my particular child. The same is true for spelling. Live Education! gives spelling lists and word groups for the lower grades, but only suggests that you take your spelling practice from the lesson you are presenting in the upper grades. Though this might be the ideal, it can be too time-consuming for a homeschooling family, or a particular child might require more consistent review of previously learned words. Here books like The Natural Speller, Sequential Speller, or Spelling Power fill the need. I know that some people talk about Live Education! burnout, but it is possible to use Live Education! even with a larger family. (I have five children, aged 2-12).

The kindergarten curriculum is organized differently. Four booklets address the four seasons, and a separate booklet describes the kindergarten at home. Instructions for activities like painting, drawing, and modeling with beeswax are given. There is also a section on storytelling and organizing a kindergartener’s day. Festivals are described, and appropriate songs, rhymes, crafts, and stories are given. There are additional reading lists for children and parents in each seasonal booklet. Having worked in a Waldorf kindergarten in Germany for several years myself, I can attest that the material is adequate and plentiful. Some parents might need more visual aids to create the atmosphere of a Waldorf kindergarten, though. I only have the first edition of the kindergarten curriculum, but it seems to me, judging by the samples on Live Education!’s website, that the curriculum has been widely improved and expanded.

Not only has the kindergarten curriculum been revised, but some of the grade levels have also. The revisions seem to be in the area of presentation, arrangement of materials, and additions to lessons. I haven’t seen the new texts, but I do hope that one of the biggest complaints I have about the booklets has been solved: bad editing in the form of many typos. I’ve also noticed that a new booklet on English (The Sentence Sounds a Melody) fills some of my suggestions for more practice in English.

This is my eighth year with Live Education! All in all I have been very pleased and inspired by it. I know that many people criticize the cost, but I think it is comparable to other materials. Buying a year of Sonlight, Oak Meadow, or even some other Waldorf suppliers is not so different. I once tried putting together my own curriculum for grade 2, but in the end it was not any cheaper, required even more work, and was not as rich as Live Education!. I like that the people behind Live Education! are actually trained Waldorf teachers themselves, who have been exposed to the education in different settings. I wish Live Education! could also give help in foreign languages, handwork, woodwork, even religion (I’m from Germany where religion is taught at the Waldorf schools). For those subjects I rely on Rudolf Steiner’s Curriculum for Waldorf Schools by Karl Stockmeyer, in the German original. I also wish Live Education! would help with purchasing or recommending sources for main lesson books, art supplies, and handwork supplies. Maybe a special discount or buying option with Mercurius could be arranged? Furthermore, I suggest that the online forum at Live Education! should be moderated, because the participation is very poor. It could be such a help for users. Nevertheless, without Live Education! my teaching would be not as varied as it has become, and I’m deeply thankful for the help and insights they have given me over the years.

Eva is a homeschooling mother of five bilingual children, aged 2-12. She comes from Germany, where she was involved with the Waldorf community for several years. She resides in New York with her American husband in the middle of nowhere. She documents her homeschooling journey at her blog: Untrodden Paths.

Finding Time To Read

I often get asked, “How do you find time to read as a homemaker?”  Apparently I am not the only one who gets this question!  I thought the author of this Christian homemaking blog gave some great tips in response to this question here:  http://www.passionatehomemaking.com/2010/08/finding-time-to-read-as-a-homemaker.html

I think reading about homemaking and parenting and homeschooling is really important.  If you have very young children, I want to encourage you to become your own “Masters of Small Chunks of Time” as I call it.  🙂

Here is a list of books related to gentle discipline by age:  https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/11/27/favorite-books-for-gentle-discipline/ 

Some mothers have written and asked me what my favorite Christian books are.  Here is a list of a few books that I have read recently and liked: 

  • “The Power of A Positive Mom” – by Karol Ladd
  • “Raising Unselfish Children In A Self-Absorbed World” – by Jill Rigby
  • “Love As A Way Of Life:  Seven Keys to Transforming Every Aspect Of Your Life” – by Gary Chapman (and also The Five Love Languages of Children as well)
  • “The Uncommon Woman”   and  “Growing Grateful Kids:  Teaching Them To Appreciate an Extraordinary  God In Ordinary Places.”  by Susie Larson

What are your favorite reads?  Please leave them below!

Many blessings,

Carrie

“Hold On To Your Kids” – Chapter Two

We are back to discuss more of our latest book study “Hold On To Your Kids:  Why Parents Need To Matter More Than Peers” by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate.  Today we are on “Chapter Two:  Skewed Attachments, Subverted Instincts.”

The authors begin this chapter with a bit about fourteen-year-old “Cynthia” whose behavior had changed in the last year to the point where she was “obsessive about her privacy and insistent that her life was none of her parents’ business.”  “Typical” methods of discipline – sanctions, groundings, time-outs had failed. 

The authors write, “The cause of Cynthia’s puzzling behavior becomes self-evident only if we picture the same scenario in the adult realm.  Imagine that your spouse or lover suddenly begins to act strangely’; won’t look you in the eye, rejects physical contact, speaks to you irritably in monosyllables, shuns your approaches, and avoids your company.  Then imagine that you go to your friends for advice.  Would they say to you, “Have you tried a time-out? Have you imposed limits and made clear what expectations are?”  It would be obvious to everyone that, in the context of adult interaction, you’re not dealing with a behavior problem but a relationship problem.  And probably the first suspicion to arise would be that your partner was having an affair.”

In a way, Cynthia was having an affair – with the peer group that had become more important than her parents and her family.

(And this is Carrie’s not here: note I do think having realistic expectations, and for teenagers having clear expectations actually is important. It can be important for adult relationships as well.  But, notice what I say is the key to discipline here:  https://theparentingpassageway.com/2010/02/22/the-number-one-way-to-discipline-a-child/)

The authors use this scenario to work toward the next section of the chapter, entitled, “Why We Must Become More Conscious of Attachment”. The authors define attachment as “a force of attachment pulling two bodies toward each other.”  They argue that we must become conscious of attachment because economically and culturally our society is no longer geared toward attachment of children toward adults.  Attachment must be known about and experienced.

There is a concept in psychology called “psychological orientation”. The authors write, “As children grow, they have an increasing need to orient: to have a sense of who they are, of what is real, why things happen, what is good, what things mean.  To fail to orient is to suffer disorientation, to be lost psychologically…Children are utterly incapable of orienting by themselves.  They need help……A parent is by far a child’s best compass point—or another adult, like a teacher, who acts as a parent substitute.” 

I love this quote on page 19 in reference to the research of the psychological attachment patterns of children:  “Absolutely clear is that children were meant to revolve around their parents and the other adults responsible for them, just as the planets revolve around the sun.  And yet more and more children are now orbiting around each other.”

The next part of the chapter, the six ways of attaching, is so important that I would like to address it in tomorrow’s post.

Many blessings,

Carrie

“Bringing Waldorf to Homeschooling” by Donna Simmons

I asked Donna Simmons of Christopherus Homeschool Resources if she would be willing to write a post for this blog and here is a thought-provoking piece about bringing and adapting Waldorf Education to the homeschooling environment.  I hope you all enjoy this, and I encourage you to leave your comments in the comment box!

Bringing Waldorf to Homeschooling – by Donna Simmons

 

One of the interesting challenges in being a provider of Waldorf curriculum materials for homeschoolers is figuring out how to make it both understandable and applicable to homeschoolers. Waldorf education is, of course, something created for the school situation. There are many things which do not work at home in the way they have developed in the classroom.

One example of this is the recall activity which is part of the 2 or 3 day teaching rhythm. One asks one’s child to recall the story material from the previous day. Several years ago I decided to rename this “revisiting” so as to distance it from the Charlotte Mason use of the term recall. In Charlotte Mason the child is describing exactly what happened in a lesson – and it is done right after the lesson. In Waldorf, this is not an exercise in memory, of exact picturing. It is about looking afresh at what transpired in the last day’s lessons and is an opportunity for the child to share what she has let sleep in her. This is about deepening the child’s experience of her lessons, letting her “digest” it overnight. And as Waldorf education rests firmly on knowledge of the human being as a spiritual being, this is also an opportunity to allow the child to take what she has learned into the spiritual worlds. The wisdom of the saying “let me sleep on it” comes from a recognition of the importance of this gesture.

But in terms of school and homeschool, the point about revisiting is that is does not work at home in the same way it works in the classroom. In the classroom revisiting is a shared activity, a group activity. The teacher leads the class through yesterday’s work, gradually building up a picture of what was done as well as acknowledging the opinions and questions of the children. And not all children participate on every day. This is something that has value over time – it is not a drill for everyday. At home one-on-one revisiting can deteriorate into cross examination. And as not all children are completely invigorated by revisiting, it can also become painfully awkward, with lots of shrugged shoulders and “dunno’s” leaving a parent feeling like a failure!

So at home we must ask ourselves the question “what is important about revisiting” and then see what suitable form might be best. My opinion is that conversation is the best vehicle for the benefits of revisiting and is a more natural way to teach a child at home. We are, after all, homeschoolers and it can be a grave mistake to try to create a little Waldorf school at home. I am constantly getting feedback from burned-out parents who tried just this and who exhausted themselves trying to follow programs which were based on the forms of Waldorf and not its essence as expressed outside the classroom.

Anyone can look at a chart laying out the progress of the Waldorf curriculum and then create a schedule of lessons based on it. But….unless they have taken the time to study what underlies the progression of the curriculum, all they will be working with is a bare skeleton. As unschoolers rightly point out, why should one work with a curriculum which is arbitrary, based on the whims of adult ideas on education? But….the thing about Waldorf education is that this is not the case. The Waldorf curriculum rests on profound observations of the developmental needs of children, on the spiritual foundations of human development. It is never, in any way, arbitrary.

So it does behoove one to try to understand what lies behind the progression of the curriculum. Why is history not taught until fifth grade? Why are all four math processes taught together? What is the importance of the animal legends block in second grade?

Then one has the freedom to choose how to fashion one’s curriculum and to not do things just because “it says so here”. Further, one can teach very different blocks than might usually appear in a Waldorf school but still be true to Waldorf education’s basis. One is understanding what the education rests upon and so can work with it, co-creating an education for one’s child, instead of merely receiving material from others.

But much of this is subtle. On the one hand one can easily “lose the wood for the trees” and cling to main lesson blocks because “that is what they do in Waldorf schools”. But on the other hand one might have missed the importance of certain aspects of the curriculum or methodology.

One wants to have good reasons for doing things differently. One wants to understand the essence of Waldorf education so that one can then make it one’s own. One needs to be able to truly understand what developmental need each aspect of the curriculum speaks to so that one can then see how it might or might not be applicable.

For example: Steiner said that grammar should be introduced in second grade. Why? Because it brings an inner form to the child, mirroring his developmental need to move from an all-encompassing consciousness to a more pointed, analytical consciousness (but only very slowly!!). Fine. But…..Steiner was referring to German grammar as he was speaking to the teachers at the Waldorfschule in Stuttgart. This makes sense in the German language – nouns, for instance, are capitalized and thus a German child can easily start to get a feel for grammar as he observes this. But in English – in unruly multi-sourced English – this is not the case. Like spelling, English grammar is plagued by rules which only hold in a rather narrow set of circumstances. Thus to learn English grammar, one must be old enough to appreciate the complexities of our language and be able to be flexible. A very young child does not have this capacity and thus learning grammar would necessitate only memorization. By memorizing grammar rules one might “know” something about grammar but not in a deep sense. One has not “made it one’s own”. This is not the way Waldorf pedagogy works.

Similarly in math, confusion seems to have arisen over the years as to how to use stories. Steiner clearly indicated that young children need to be introduced to mathematical concepts via pictures (thus the advent of the math gnomes, created by my old teacher Mrs. Harrer many years ago and which has becomes almost institutionalized – something Steiner would have been most unhappy about!). Why use stories to introduce math? Because that is what speaks to the consciousness of the young child. Seven year olds have not yet developed the kind of analytical abstract ways of thinking that adults (and teens) have. To teach them holistically, to speak to the reality of their experience, one needs to meet them in their picture consciousness. But…that is for young children. Somehow this has spread amongst Waldorf schools (and some curriculum providers) to mean that math lessons continue to be carried by stories well into the middle grades! To me this is shocking! By 4th grade a child must start to deal with numbers as numbers – not as kings and queens and other story figures! Could it be that the sad reality of Waldorf schools being very weak in math is related to this? And is all of this a problem just because I say so? No! It is problematic because what is being done is out of sync with the developmental needs of children.

Why is all of this important? It is important because if a parent understands why she is doing something with her child, then she is freer to choose and create what her child needs. And that might actually, on the surface, look very little like the usual Waldorf curriculum. Steiner said there were three requirements to being a Waldorf teacher: that they base their work on an anthroposophical understanding of child development; that they understand the needs of the particular children before them; and that they be willing to unceasingly work on their own personal/spiritual development. He didn’t say anything about adhering to the Waldorf curriculum come hell or high water!

And all of this is especially relevant to homeschooling parents as Waldorf education was, of course, designed for the school situation. But an anthroposophical understanding of children is about children, full stop. Children in school, children at home, children of all races, religions, and backgrounds. So it is more than a little useful to work to understand something of the foundations of Waldorf education!

In all our Christopherus publications I try very hard to help parents understand both why and how things are done. Then they are free to see what is or is not relevant to their child and to their family situation. That then is true education.

I also occasionally lead in depth studies of anthroposophical and Waldorf writings on my on-line discussion forum. I have been an anthroposophist for almost 20 years and involved in Waldorf as a student ( k – 12), parent, teacher (all levels), parent educator and homeschooling parent. So I’m in a pretty good position to offer a hand to those seeking to understand more about Waldorf education.

Starting this September, I will be leading a study of The Kingdom of Childhood by Rudolf Steiner on my forum. You can read it online or you can purchase it from the Christopherus Bookstore. This book is a foundational part of Waldorf teacher training and is one of Steiner’s more accessible lecture series. Here is a link to my forum where I describe this study a bit more and what will follow after. Scroll over to the Christopherus News section (which is open to non members) for details  

Hope you join us!

Thank you so much, Donna.  And much love and many blessings to my readers!

Carrie

A Blog I Am Really Enjoying

Are all of you familiar with Bella Luna Toys and its new owner Sarah Baldwin?  I am really enjoying her blog; for those of you with small children (or without! LOL) and an eye on this first seven year cycle please do check her articles out here:  http://blog.bellalunatoys.com/.  If you would like to learn more about Sarah please see here:  http://blog.bellalunatoys.com/about  (although she doesn’t mention anything about being an author which she is!  Here is a link to her book here:  http://www.waldorfbooks.com/edu/curriculum/kindergarten.htm?zoom_highlight=sarah+baldwin)

Here are a few of my favorite articles from this blog:

http://blog.bellalunatoys.com/2010/waldorf-homeschooling-letting-go-of-perfect.html

and here:

http://blog.bellalunatoys.com/2010/waldorf-dolls.html

Love this and love to you all!

Carrie

The Days of Summer

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Hope your days of Summer are going well!  Here are a few pictures of our favorite Summer activity – thank you to my dear friend Samantha Fogg of Work +Play Dog Training (http://workplaydogs.com/) for taking these shots. 

What you probably cannot tell  is that in the second picture our dog is towing the children back to shore.  Our dog just finished an introductory carting class and will soon be starting water rescue classes.  She is a good dog.  And no one is wearing sun hats in these pictures because no one would keep them on.  Such is the challenge of Summer!

Much love and many blessings,

Carrie