Welcome, September! This is one of my favorite months because it is a month of new beginnings, which I love. Cooler weather, harvest, leaves turning colors, long walks and bike rides, apples and pumpkins, acorns, getting the house organized for fall, searching for things to make for the holidays, fall decorating! So many wonderful things to love about September!
September often seems to be about new beginnings. Here in the South, the school children have been back to public school about a month, so perhaps it is not “new”, but it still has that feel to me and my Northern upbringing (where we always started school the day after Labor Day) , that it is a time of possibility and change.
I write this in the midst of another barn renovation. When we moved to this property, the former owners had added a run in and two small stalls from leftover wood on the back of the barn. We need more stalls, so we are taking that and turning it into two large stalls and a wash stall and making it look like it all goes together. So, that’s exciting! It’s also the season of feeding the bees due to dearth (no pollen) and overall getting ready for winter. Winter annuals will go in this week. Our son and I are going camping with Sea Scouts while my husband holds down the farm that weekend as the older girls will be assisting and showing at our local horse show. So, it’s a busy outdoor time, but the cooler temperatures are so inviting to be outside!
For me, September is also a time of contemplation as we head into the mood of Michaelmas. It is truly a time of prayer, meditations, new impulses and an idea of serving others and changing the future. I love this festival of Michaelmas as one that illuminates the soul into the winter, takes up the challenges in front of us as we wind our way ahead in the dark to help us find that small space of courage and bravery that lets us know we are not defeated yet. We have not given up yet. Imagine a humanity where this was the theme before us of overcoming, of bringing new into the world. I may be attacked along the way of this new birth and new bringing, but I am not decimated. I can move forward.
There is a beautiful poem in the book “All Year Round” on page 129 that could make a particularly lovely blessing for this time of year and you could modify it as you wish:
Thanks to our mother, the earth, which sustains us;
Thanks to the rivers and streams and their water;
Thanks to the corn and the grain fields that feed us;
Thanks to the herbs which protect us from illness;
Thanks to the bushes and trees and their fruiting;
Thanks to the moon and the stars in the darkness;
Thanks to the sun and his eye that looks earthward;
Thank the Great Spirit for all of his goodness.
Adapted from an Iroquois Indian address of thanksgiving
Here are a few things we are celebrating:
Labor Day – September 5 (We rented a boat on a nearby lake and took our children and their boyfriends and friends. It was a lot of fun!)
The Nativity of St. Mary – September 8 (Today!)
Holy Cross Day – September 14
Autumn Equinox – September 22 – You can see my Autumn Pinterest Board for ideas!
The Feast of St. Michael and All Angels – September 29. This is one of my favorite celebrations in the church and at home! You can see my MIchaelmas Pinterest Board for some ideas!
The season of Michaelmas, for me, really lasts from a few weeks before Michaelmas until a week or so before Halloween. In honor of this occasion, I have been re- reading the words of Rudolf Steiner from his lectures collected and entitled, “Michaelmas and the Soul- Forces of Man” In the fourth lecture, he relates the four major festivals of the year: Michaelmas, Christmas, Easter and St. John’s. He says, “ Easter: death, then resurrection; Michaelmas: resurrection of the soul, then death. This makes of the Michael Festival a reversed Easter Festival. Easter commemorates for us the Resurrection of Christ from death; but in the Michael Festival we must feel with all the intensity of our soul: In order not to sleep in a half-dead state that will dim my self-consciousness between death and a new birth, but rather, to be able to pass through the portal of death in full alertness, I must rouse my soul through my inner forces before I die. First, resurrection of the soul — then death, so that in death that resurrection can be achieved which man celebrates within himself.”
You can read these four lectures for yourself here: http://wn.rsarchive.org/Lectures/MichSoul/MiSoul_index.html There is also this really interesting collection of articles, lectures, verses and stories all about Michaelmas available in Waldorf Journal Project #15, edited by David Mitchell. You can find that here: http://www.waldorflibrary.org/Journal_Articles/WJP15.pdf
The Home Mood:
To me, the fall becomes a time of turning inward; a time of gratitude and reflection. How do my words, my actions, reflect my gratitude toward my Creator and toward my life? How do I interact with others in order to show this? There is a quote I often think about from Dr. Rudolf Steiner that talks about this. He says;
The cultivation of this universal gratitude toward the world is of paramount importance. It does not always need to be in one’s consciousness, but may simply live in the background of the feeling life, so that, at the end of a strenuous day, one can experience gratitude, for example, when entering a beautiful meadow full of flowers……And if we only act properly in front of the children, a corresponding increase in gratitude will develop within them for all that comes to them from the people living around them, from the way they speak or smile, or the way such people treat them.” Rudolf Steiner from “A Child’s Changing Consciousness As The Basis of Pedagogical Practice”
Gratitude is such an important mood to create in the home. I think this creation can be tangible, like those gratitude jars or going around the table at night and sharing something we have gratitude for…those are wonderful in their own way, but I think creating a true mood of gratitude in the home actually is a much harder and deeper task.
How do I really permeate this mood and carry it, even when things are overwhelming, is for this season of overcoming and courage as we head toward the longer nights of Winter. I think this is especially pertinent for those of us with teenagers and young adults who often are in the throes of figuring out who they really are, what turn their life is going to take as they launch. It can be a daunting time requiring inner strength on the part of the parent to really hold.
I think prayer comes to the forefront if that is in your spiritual tradition. I have never prayed as hard as I do now for my young adults and all the things they face. Even knowing from a certain perspective that they are made for these times, it can still be daunting. Teaching them deeper joy in the midst of transitions is something valuable that they still can learn from us! The teaching and guiding is not over and in many ways they need us more now than they did when they were small. I also use many affirmations and place that positive energy out into the world on their behalf. This fall, I am making a prayer board to have a tangible place for all the prayers and gratitude.
Ideas for the Home:
- The seasonal table is transitioning to yellows with dried flowers, seed pods, bunches of oats or wheat or corn that are dried, cornucopias, nuts, acorns, leaves and little “helicopters.”
- I am going through and taking stock of fall and winter clothes and purging what we do not need.
- Fall menu planning – a time of chili, soup, stew, warming dishes. I eat a lot of plant based dishes, so beans are coming to a forefront.
- Crafting – I have some autumn crafting ideas on my Pinterest board, but I think I am going to start with Michaelmas crafts and autumn lanterns. My friend and I already made fall wreaths, and I made a Winter wreath as well, but I am also thinking about holiday wreaths for the barn!
Ideas for Celebrating this Month with Littles:
Ideas for Celebrating this Month With Older Children:
Ideas for Celebrating this Month With Teens:
- Find great theater, museum, and festival events to attend
- Longer hiking, camping, and backpacking trips
- Bake and cook fall dishes
- Work on fall organizing and cleaning
- Stargazing
- Find new activities outside the home that your teen will adore
- Find new knitting, crocheting, sewing, woodworking and woodcarving ideas to try
Homeschooling and Working:
Work has been very busy both with pelvic health physical therapy patients and lactation families.
Homeschooling our ninth grader, our last high schooler, has been going along – also busy! I am trying very hard to keep pushing him forward with math as he is interested most in science and science in the upper levels and college really requires math. We are also working on writing quite a bit. He is busy with kickboxing/boxing, Sea Scouts and a cybersecurity team that goes to competitions.
What are your September plans? If you blog or on social media, please leave a link in the comments below so we can follow each other’s plans!
Blessings,
Carrie
The Parenting Passageway 