All of us lie along the sensory spectrum in terms of our reactions, to sensory stimuli, but for some adults and children, being “over” responsive or “under” responsive predominates how they react to things, to the point where it interferes with their activities of life. So today I wanted to jump in and talk about children who are “over-responders” to sensory stimuli. These are the children you hear about who are “sensory defensive” and many times are “avoiders” as they show behaviors that are attempts to calm their nervous systems. Continue reading
The Sacred Art of Self-Care
Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin
As self-neglecting. –From William Shakespeare’s Henry V
I am so pleased that Kyrie is doing a series on “The Ordinary Arts” that make up the fabric of our lives. Her first post is up here http://www.aresohappy.com/home/2011/10/17/ordinary-arts-the-art-of-self-care.html, and she has invited us to write our own thoughts on this important topic.
To me, the Ordinary Arts is finding the holy in the ordinary. The beautiful in the mundane. The “big” in those really small moments of life.
On Easter Monday of this year, I wrote a post about “The Sacred In The Ordinary” (https://theparentingpassageway.com/2011/04/25/the-sacred-in-the-ordinary/). This is an important topic – in the repetitive tasks that make up the care of small children, in the repetitive tasks of what really constitutes homemaking and nurturing the home, can we turn this into a sacred act, a gift to receive and to be given? Continue reading
A Lovely Giveaway From Bella Luna Toys!
THE GIVEAWAY is now closed…will be announcing a winner in a few hours! Thank you all for your enthusiasm, kind comments and well wishes! Love, and many blessings to you all! _ Carrie 12:24 EST Friday October 21, 2011
Welcome to Monday with a lovely giveaway from Bella Luna Toys in honor of The Parenting Passageway’s third anniversary! Please head on over to www.bellalunatoys.com and feast your eyes upon the magical toys, high quality art supplies and other goodies there. Once you have in mind what you would like to spend a $25 gift certificate on, please share that with me in this space in the comment section. The drawing will be on Friday, so plenty of time to enter!
Thank you again to Bella Luna Toys and wonderful owner Sarah Baldwin. I look forward to hearing from you all. A jump start on holiday shopping, anyone?
Many blessings,
Carrie
PS. Just a fast note to my many international readers: this giveaway is open to you as well as Bella Luna Toys is willing to ship internationally, but the shipping costs are to be paid by the winner….
“Reflexes and The Developing Mind”–Part Two
This is Part Two of the post covering Chapter 4 in “The Well-Balanced Child” by Sally Goddard Blythe. You can find the first part of this post here: http://www.chattnaturecenter.org/hours-admission-attire-directions.html
We are going to take a quick peek at the last four reflexes in this chapter. Continue reading
Is Your Parenting Helping Or Hindering?
Just a few little musings that came to me this morning…
Is your parenting helpful or is it honestly hindering your child from unfolding and being who they are, is it helping them learn to take responsibility over themselves or treating them as smaller and younger than they are, is your parenting helping your children rise up or holding then back?
For those of you with children ages birth through 7… Continue reading
Great Things Coming On Monday!
Lovely things are happening on Monday: Continue reading
Tagged In The Homeschooling Game!
Eva over at Untrodden Paths, one of my favorite blogs, has tagged The Parenting Passageway in the homeschooling game here: http://untroddenpaths.blogspot.com/2011/10/homeschool-questionnairehausunterrichts.html
So, without further ado, here are some of the answers for the homeschooling game from my perspective!
One homeschooling book you have enjoyed: Continue reading
An Effective Sensory Diet For Your Homeschool and Your Life: Part One
Yay! I finally have gotten a chance to sit down with the notes I took at a sensory modulation course I recently attended. It was a lot of fun to have my thinking cap on for awhile, and I have some interesting things I want to share with you all.
A sensory diet just refers to the optimum sensory input a person needs to perform at his or her peak. So, as you can imagine, this is of vast importance to educators at school and home alike (or it should be!)
A person who is good at modulating sensory input can take what is going on, filter out what is not important and focus on the things that are relevant.
Sometimes this can be a challenge for children (and adults alike). If your child’s behavior is reflecting something in the environment and they are spending all their energy on figuring out and reacting to the environment, then there may not be a lot of attention left over for schoolwork! Continue reading
October Circle Time
As promised, I am sharing what we are doing in our family to gather everyone up and start our homeschooling adventure for the day. I have a wide variety of ages – age 2, age 6 and a half, age 10 – just to make it all interesting! Continue reading
Space: The Final Frontier In Parenting The Six/Seven Year Old
Space is the final frontier in parenting the six/seven year old as the child goes through a developmental leap during this time.
Many attached and connected parents do so well in providing their children the gift of time: time to have an unhurried, unrushed childhood. Time to just be: in nature, in the home. Time to rest. Time to grow and time to mature. No hurrying.
But I feel where many attached and connected parents fail is in giving their children the gift of space, especially during this six/seven year change. Space, along with time, are essential gifts to provide to our children to help them grow and become healthy adults. Continue reading