Great Books for Second Grade In Your Waldorf- Inspired Homeschool

Here are some suggestions for Waldorf Second Grade read-alouds:

From “The Waldorf Student Reading List”:  (and do get the book so you can read the complete list, I picked and  wrote here out of what resonated with me!)

Aesop’s Fables (LEAVE THE MORAL OUT AT THE END) – These are usually done in a main lesson block, so I would NOT consider these bedtime reading or anything!  Maybe these really shouldn’t be on this list, as they are usually told, not read……I will write a post on Fable Main Lesson Block soon!

Thornton Burgess Nature Stories – all of them and there are many!

King Of Ireland’s Son” – again, if you are not doing this as a Main Lesson Block

Susan Cooper’s “The Selkie Girl” – a picture book, but definitely with second-grade content

Tomie De Paola – Clown of God, Big Anthony, Stregna Nona, etc.

Wind In the Willows” – a classic!

George MacDonald’s “The Light Princess”, “The Princess and the Goblin”, “The Princess and Curdie”

Any of Gerald McDermott’s Trickster Tale kind of picture books

Arthur Ransome’s “Old Peter’s Russian Tales

Winnie the Pooh” if you have not read those stories yet

Jakob Streit’s “Animal Stories” (available through Waldorf booksellers)

Isabel Wyatt’s “The Book of Fairy Princes

Some suggestions from Donna Simmons in her works:

Barefoot Book of Pirates

Ballet Shoes – N. Streatfield (there is a whole series available)

John Henry” as illustrated by  Julius Lester and also “The Adventures of Bre’r Rabbit” also illustrated by Julius Lester

King Arthur by Roger Lancelyn Green

Robin Hood also by Roger Lancelyn Green

Donna has a bookstore on Amazon where you can see titles for second grade here:  http://astore.amazon.com/christopherus-20

Some Suggestions from Carrie:

Little House on the Prairie, but do save “Farmer Boy” for third grade!!

The Moomintroll Series

Any sort of Jataka tales if you are not doing these for a Main Lesson Block

Any of the appropriate stories from “Hear the Voice of the Griot!” by Betty Staley and available through Waldorf booksellers.    A great resource for all grades; see the review on this blog!

Any sort of American Tall Tale or Native American trickster tales

Mungo, which is a story of a Saint found through Waldorf booksellers.  I have not read it myself but I have heard from others that this would be appropriate for Grade Two.  (Update I do not agree with this for grade two. I would put it much, much  later – it has complex themes, including a rape).

The German classic now in English, “Peter and Anneli’s Journey to the Moon” available through Bob and Nancy’s Bookshop www.waldorfbooks.com

Peaceful and happy reading together,

Carrie

Waldorf Third Grade and Old Testament Stories

So many people get hung up with the Saint Stories in the second grade, and then many people get hung up with Old Testament Stories of the Third Grade.

The Old Testament Stories of the  Waldorf Third Grade are not told as a “religious” main lesson block.

For a good post on this subject, please see Donna Simmons’ blog here:

http://christopherushomeschool.typepad.com/blog/2007/11/old-testament-s.html

Perhaps it will illuminate an anthroposophical approach to these studies of the Third Grade and set your heart at ease.  These stories are important for children in the throes of the nine-year- change, and I hope you will take the time to meditate on what Donna Simmons has to say about this  and figure out how to bring these stories to your children baggage-free!

Peace,

Carrie

Homeschooling Siblings With Waldorf

Yes, I am back thinking more about siblings.  I wrote a pretty popular post about the balance that has to occur with Waldorf homeschooling of siblings, and some of the things particular to Waldorf homeschooling here:  https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/05/05/homeschooling-multiple-children-with-waldorf/

The thing to really think long and hard about is this:  If your children were going to school, where everything is divided by neat age ranges into grades, your children would spend no time together at all.  The peer group of your child instantly becomes more important than the relationship between siblings.  Older children enrolled in school seem to be indoctrinated into the attitude, (at least in many of the unfortunate cases I have seen), that “we don’t hang around with the babies!’ kind of thing as opposed to the approach that older ones should be the safe keepers and guardians and helpmates to the smaller children.

You have a wonderful opportunity to do this at home!   In the days where you feel as if your older one is being shortchanged by having smaller ones in the picture who keep eating all your supplies and getting into your older ones’ projects, or on the days when you feel your younger ones are being shortchanged because they are tied into the older ones’ schedules and you are not doing the same things with the younger ones that you did with the older ones when they were that age…..well, just take a breath.

Realize that the relationship you are cultivating and nurturing between the siblings is probably one of the most important things, if not the most important thing, your child will take away from his or her homeschooling experience.

We work hard to balance the needs of ALL the members of our family, but we also rest in knowing that our family bonds are strengthened by the sheer amount of quantity time we spend together day in and day out.  This is something probably only other homeschoolers understand. 

So have peace and rest in knowing this ,

Carrie

Waldorf Guilt

So many times when we find a new way of doing things in our homes and in our lives, we look back at what we were doing in the past  and say, “Wow!  I can’t believe that I thought that was the right way to do things!  I can’t believe that is how we did things in our house and in our homeschool and in our lives!”  We feel guilty that we didn’t do the things then that we are doing now.  Many times we especially feel guilty about the path we walked with our older children and how we feel our younger children are getting a benefit the older ones never had.  How do we go back?

We cannot reverse time.  You were just as good a mother then as you are  now, it is just now you have different information and a different framework with which to base decisions on.   You may now have a different way of looking at the grades and at childhood now, and that is okay. 

Instead of ravaging yourself with guilt, which truly doesn’t help any household to be more peaceful, try to congratulate yourself on the steps you are taking today to bring your household into more peace, more joy and more love.  You may find yourself living with more order, but also more FUN!  (Which many people think must be a contradiction in terms before they come to Waldorf!)

Look at your baby steps and how far you have come.  See this post for help:  https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/03/13/baby-steps-to-waldorf-rhythm/

If you find you are getting swallowed up by Waldorf and the need for “Waldorf perfection” try this extremely popular post: https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/03/12/hopeless-with-waldorf/

Most of all, enjoy this journey, this precious time with your family and your children. You cannot get this time back, and look at what a wonderful job you are doing moving forward!

Be proud of who you are, how far you have come, love yourself and your family.

Much love to you and yours,

Carrie

Waldorf: Educating for Excellence

Waldorf education does provide an academically rigorous education that can take a graduate wherever they want to go, whether that be Harvard or Princeton, to art school, to medical school, or to law school.

People who do not look beyond the Kindergarten Years of Waldorf education typically do not understand the scope and sequence of the curriculum and how invigorating and challenging it is.  The fact that subjects within the grades are taught within active movement, art, rhythm. music, hands-on work, where the active always proceeds the passive writing part, where the curriculum is tailored toward the fact that logical thought doesn’t come into play until the teenaged years (and this is based on a number of psychological studies, not just a bizarre Waldorf notion) is baffling to people who think learning can only take place within workbooks and a group of children the same age sitting together in a classroom.

Donna Simmons wrote several really good posts about the academic rigorousness of Waldorf here:

http://christopherushomeschool.typepad.com/blog/2007/09/educating-for-e.html

And here:

http://christopherushomeschool.typepad.com/blog/2009/05/from-norse-myths-to-beowulf.html

Some folks wonder with the delayed start to academics how children ever “catch up”.  In this regard, Waldorf education has something in common with our friends the unschoolers.  A friend of mine was telling me a story about her friend who has grown children who now have Master’s degrees in technically demanding fields – engineering, etc.  The foundation the mother had provided was lots of creative play, going to the museum (and NOT dissecting everything there, just LOOKING!  What a novelty!)  The children learned to read around the age of 11, and essentially “caught up” in reading and mathematics to their grade level and beyond in SIX MONTHS.

I liken the fact that the Waldorf curriculum is so precisely orchestrated, everything does build on each other, starting in the Kindergarten (and yes, those sensorial experiences are the hands-on basis of science and other subjects as the child moves on).  Look at the curriculum and see the in-depth choices that make up the curriculum.

Donna Simmons pointed out to me the other day that the Classical movement is based upon being academically rigorous and I would add somewhat more “serious” schooling, modeling off a Greek style of education…….The Greeks did not start formal education until the change of teeth and relied on movement, rhythm, and other elements to bring the learning in.  Sounds an awful lot like Waldorf to me!  Investigate, and do not blindly believe!

Waldorf works because it is a support of the unfolding that is there within the child.  My mother-in-law remarks that almost every four, five, six year old she has taught in her million years of teaching is “bright”.  However, the truly gifted children come out later, around the ages of 9-11, the children who truly can take the concepts learned, manipulate those concepts and come up with something new.  In my opinion, Waldorf builds the very best foundation for that.  Einstein thought fairy tales was the basis of being a better scientist.  There is a reason for that.

I fully expect my children to go and do whatever it is they want to do when they are grown, and if they want to go to a top-rated University, they will have the skills to do it.  However, Waldorf will allow things to unfold in its own time without burning them out academically  by the time they are 8 or 9.

Be careful with the educational choices you make in your homeschool; your homeschool can be anything you want it to be, but please keep in mind the developmental stages of childhood and how children learn best – they don’t learn the same way a 40 or 50 year old would learn because they are not 40 and 50 years old.  Just food for thought today.

Peace,

Carrie

Where Do I Go Now?

What do you do when you realize your method of homeschooling has been more detrimental  than the goodness you thought it was bringing to your child? Or that your child just has tremendous imbalances between their body, their head, their social and emotional skills?   I am talking about parents of very,very bright children who were reading at age three fluently, the very smart child who is so incredibly “gifted”, the children who are so ahead of themselves and so logical…..

Until the parent begins to notice that this very bright child can relate to no one of his own age at all.  That the child has poor gross motor skills.  That the child is only drawn to books and textbooks and such.  That this child has very little creative ability, is very serious, has difficulty playing.  That the child seems very in their head, worried about adult things, in fact seems more like an adult than not…..

In my experience many of these children do  feel isolated, depressed, anxious – and they are still children and whether they can verbalize it or not, they are looking to you to take the lead, to make it better.  They are still small, they still need your protection.

And the parent is thinking now this child is 7,8 or 9, what to do, what to do?  Can Waldorf education help this child?

My first recommendation is this:  Call one of the national Waldorf consultants for a consultation.  This is important, because  sometimes you are dealing with an out of the ordinary situation, not just where the child is coming in late to Waldorf, which also may have its own challenges, but there may be therapeutic issues to be dealt with.   Here is the link with all the names of consultants I know:  https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/01/03/waldorf-consultants/

My second recommendation is to look at yourself!  This will take hard work, change, motivation, being matter of fact and peaceful with your child as things change and they complain about the change!  Can you:

1. Stop talking and putting adult decision making on them?   Do not ask them if they want to “do Waldorf homeschooling.”  It is not their choice at this point.  They should have completely limited choices at this point on life issues.  They already have had enough pressure and the decision making process has worked on their psyche to the point where they are no longer children.  Help them reclaim their childhood by being the Authentic Leader in your home. You set the tone right now.

2.  Can you read some of Steiner and really penetrate what teaching first, second or third grade is  about?  What level these children are normally at in these grades in Waldorf? And there is more than academics at stake here – where are they gross motor wise, emotionally, socially, artistically, fine motor wise?     It is probably going to be very different than what you are used to.    Can you be okay with that while you take a year to heal and to shift toward balance?

3.  Can you be okay with balancing the child without the use of textbooks in these early grades, with the use of outside time, hiking, gardening, being in nature without identifying trees and bushes to death?  Woodworking, knitting, dyeing things, having an aquarium without all the plant and fish identification, having an art farm or worm farm, looking at the stars with the naked eye with Native American legends and stories as the backdrop would all be healing.  Apple picking, berry picking, making jelly, going to the zoo and aquarium (without writing reports or taking one of the those damned nature journals around with them to draw and identify everything by the latin name? just looking and being and seeing how those animals move), swimming, singing and jumping rope would all be very healing.

4.  Can you show them how to play by setting up stations for playing in your home?  Most eight year old girls still like to play with dolls.  Maybe your child has forgotten how to play!  Copious outside time will help.  Can you set up a woodworking bench, a knitting area, a sewing area, an area for art?  Can you work on some handwork yourself for an hour in the afternoons and set up that model, that expectation for your son or daughter?

5.  Think about warmth – less words, stop explaining, can you show your delight in your child WITHOUT words at all?  Smiles, hugs, fun!  Can you as a family go and have fun?  Hiking, ice skating, roller skating, picnics, – is this child’s seriousness coming from you?  This child is small and needs to be joyous!

6.  Think about early bedtimes, consistent meal and snack times with warm food.  Lots of fresh air and fresh unprocessed foods.

7.  Bring in stories to heal your child’s soul – fairy tales, legends, nature stories, stories from your childhood and from when your child was very, very small.  Lots of storytelling.  Remember, the academics in Waldorf can be adjusted to where your child is, but the stories for each grade is designed for the child’s soul development.  And while we would want to focus on what a child needs for that age, and not go backward, I see nothing wrong with lighting a candle and telling a fairy tale at night to a third grader!  Adults love fairy tales too!

8.  Can you bring in music?  The joy of having music as a family?  This is so important.

9. Can you make a big deal about preparing for festivals where school does not go on as usual?  Festival preparation is an integral part of life for the Early Grades child.

Your Waldorf consultant will have other suggestions based upon your child’s needs.  Waldorf is a healing method of education, but it takes commitment and a matter of fact peaceful kind of energy.

Peace and may goodness go with you,

Carrie

“I Got My Son Back!”

The decision to pull a teenager out of high school and to homeschool instead can be a difficult one.  I have a friend who did just that, and it has worked out splendidly.  Her son was depressed, sullen, angry and failing when he attended school.  Now he is now a boy who not only gets all his work done but works ahead.  He reports to his friends how much he likes being homeschooled, and how ”it’s like college, because it is all on me to get it done.”  His friends now would like to be homeschooled!

His mother reports he is now pretty cheerful, happy and is once again loving toward his family.  She wonders if he had been bullied at school, but he won’t talk about that yet.  She wonders if he fell in with the wrong crowd, or just trying to be part of the culture where being a “smart boy” was not cool.  It was much more cool to not care and to fail.  All she knows is she is happy that she did not listen to her fears about homeschooling and went ahead.  She says it is the best thing she ever has done and wishes they had done it long ago.

What is holding you back today?  What fears are you holding onto?  What do you need to let go of in order to be the best parent and homeschooling teacher you can be?

Food for thought,

Carrie

Flow of the Day in A Waldorf Home

Keep in mind this would be an ideal day in our house with a Kindergartner and an Early Grades kiddo, but maybe it will help give someone an idea of how to put it all together. Modify, change, take what resonates with you and your family and where you live.  There is no one right way to do this!!  We are at home and not at a Waldorf school!

Here is a day in the life:

  • Up, air out beds while taking shower, cleaning up bathroom and getting dressed
  • Make all beds with children’s help
  • Breakfast with blessing, religious devotional;  clean-up after breakfast including wiping table and sweeping under table
  • Help children with dressing, hair brushing and teeth brushing
  • Throw in laundry
  • Go for walk with children and dog or gardening tasks
  • Snack
  • Call to school with Song of Month on pennywhistle and any festival songs we are learning, light candle, say morning verses  (we may school outside or inside)
  • Circle time or seasonal finger plays for Kindergartner
  • Story for Kindergartner/Activity after story – every week we include modeling of some type and kind.  We also use drama, puppets, drawing, and other things to bring the story alive over a period of two weeks to a month for each Kindy story.
  • Active Math practice for older child if not in a Math Block or pennywhistle and more singing practice
  • Main Lesson for Grades Child – three day rhythm here……  An hour is a long time here for a First Grader!
  • Foreign language two days a week (German on Mondays with arts and crafts for the younger child, cooking on Tuesdays, Wednesdays Spanish with free play inside for the youngest child) (And yes, amazingly, this time period may involve more eating and snacking :))
  • Outside play while I do some more cleaning, lunch preparation
  • Blessing, lunch; clean-up
  • Quiet time
  • Handwork alternated with arts and crafts or wet on wet painting is ideal

The afternoons we spend outside playing or just creating.  I like to garden or read while the children play.  Time to “just  be”  is important to us.  We do grocery shop on Thursday afternoons in general.  Some weeks we have allergist or chiropractic appointments to work in as well.  I try very hard to keep us home a lot, which means saying NO to a lot of   things.  🙂

Fridays look a bit different in that our typical school day is usually either a fast finish up of the only the academic piece of the Main Lesson (without the Kindy stuff or math practice).  We usually then do  a short  Peace Circle (this idea was inspired by  the Winter Seasons of Joy booklet by Annette  – you can see her website here about ordering: http://natural-childhood.blogspot.com/ for Annette’s example)   I have made my own Peace Circles (and taught hymns or other spiritual songs and verses) and a religious study.   This year we have been discussing one Fruit of the Spirit a month through a bible story, coloring, games or whatever else I can think of (there are nine Fruit of the Spirit  so this happened to work out well for us).  And then generally we clean and play and get the house ready for the weekend!

Every Waldorf homeschool will look different; it will also look different at different stages as your children grow and mature.

I hear so many mothers who have three children or more under the age of 5 and they are so hard on themselves that they don’t have this wonderful rhythm with all these activities going on; please do be easy with yourselves out there!  Sometimes it is just getting through the day and small things at that point with building up to the bigger things as the children grow and mature!  Take it easy if you have multiple children under the age of 5; remember Steiner thought is was beneficial for a child to be able to see even 15 minutes of real work done by your warm hands.  Go through the back posts on this blog about rhythm and start small – awake times, bedtimes, mealtimes.

Be easy with yourself and others as we travel this homeschooling road together,

Carrie

Wonderful Words From Marsha Johnson!

This post is NOT by me, but by Master Waldorf Teacher Marsha Johnson, who lives in the Portland area.  She wrote this wonderful post this morning, I so encourage you to read it carefully, consider it, weigh it in your heart.  Please do go and join her Yahoo!group waldorfhomeeducators.  This is an excellent post, just excellent.  Please read Marsha Johnson’s wise words and enjoy!

“One recurring thread that emerges again and again in the various home schooling groups is the embracing of Info-Mation as Edu-Cation. This is an approach that relies on the passing along of facts and figures to the children, rather like filling up a blank sheet of paper with a long list of data. This kind of education is one that many parents themselves were exposed to as children in lower schools and is yet embraced by many institutions of higher learning.
I have jokingly referred to it as Information Vomitus. Particularly in graduate school, one absorbs mounds of information and must regurgitate it accurately within a time period, and those who can do this are considered ‘smart’.
As a species, some of us just love this habit. We have game shows where we love to quiz people on obscure and odd facts and see who can answer the most questions correctly. There are board games that focus on this aimless ‘art’, like Trivial Pursuit. That name does make me laugh at least the use of the word trivial. Small and meaningless.

As parents, we tend to veer unconsciously towards teaching our children in the way we ‘were taught’. This tendency is really one of the most dangerous and damaging stage in the life of the homeschooling family.

Why do I say this? Because the children of today, the millennial children, the Shining Ones, are very different than the previous generation of children, those born from the 1950s to the 1990s, when the Information Age really began to dominate. The idea was strewn about that one could improve a child’s IQ with exposure to this Factoid Education and that children were really blank slates whose minds could be sharpened and very soon after this time period began we started seeing massive testing of children as large population groups and lo and behold, a lot of stereotyping also began to show up in the statistics. All sorts of rather wicked and demeaning conclusions have been drawn from this kind of erroneous practice.

When we begin to ‘school’ children, and some are so anxious they start right away as soon as Baby can focus her eyes, we reach back into our own educational experiences and most often pull forward this kind of teaching that involves a lot of child sitting-parent speaking.

With a sense of humor here, often the children quickly teach the parent that this kind of education isn’t going to persist for too long. As children are naturally good and sweet and want to make us big people happy, they often accommodate us with love and grace, and put up with quite a bit of this kind of dreary boring presentation.

But some don’t. They rise up and run about and wiggle away, dancing, singing, going outside, done-with-that!, let’s have snack happy attitude that is probably the most logically kind response possible.

The type of education that really fits the developmental stage of the child most closely, from my own point of view, is Waldorf education. Within the very ‘bones’ of Rudolf Steiner’s philosophies we find the most wonderful comprehension of how children are, what children need, and why we must approach the education of the child with an imaginative, artistic technique. A warm and inclusive attitude. A whole-child, integrated program that moves smoothly from moment to moment to create a kind of living-dream, wherein the child floats, soars, rests, and grows.

And this is probably the very opposite of the Info-Mation protocol, which calls mostly on the forces of the nerve-sense pole, the head, the hearing and memory and goes down dry as a desert rock in late summer.

Will you provide an education that inspires your child and yourself? Can you take a subject and find the Alice-In-Wonderland Rabbit Hole that will allow you to enter in a playful and unexpected fashion? How much of the school time is spent sitting and listening, or writing or copying? How much is spent moving, doing, trying, inventing, creating, cooperating, considering, digesting?

I am struck again and again by how passionate and devoted parents can be to a style of learning that would, well, invoke passion and interest in someone 35 years old or older? (smiles here) But a six year old is in his first decade, not the fourth, and taking the dry factual program to this tender age should really be some kind of crime.

Destroying a child’s imagination and tramping through their fairy land of fantasy with the bulldozers of ‘real life’ is actually a crime against childhood. We are surrounded by immense pressure from commercial marketers, manufacturers, media moguls, and those who want to benefit from premature aging. It is unbelievable, a very sophisticated and invisible force to destroy childhood and create an endless period of ‘tween’ and ‘teen’. Did you know the average age of video game players is actually 29 years old? This means there many older and younger right around 30 years of age who devote most of their free time to staring at screens.

One of the easiest ways to judge how a lesson is being received is to keep a close eye on the recipient. Rather than lose your adult self into the lovely land of facts and transmitting these facts, say a few words and watch the child. Allow for pauses and wait a bit. Does the child keep her attention focused on you, do the cheeks pink up, do the eyes sparkle, doe he sit forwards towards you, hanging on your words? Or does she fidget, grow pale, look down or elsewhere, try to rise and leave? Observe the child closely during the day, during play, during rest, during active vigorous exercise. Learn the color patterns of the child’s skin, the facial and body gestures. Configure your lessons in such a way that the child’s response is one of delight, close attention, desire to participate, and shows a healthy age appropriate expression.

Young children naturally move and use their bodies to learn. Incorporate this into each lesson and every day in your home teaching. Sitting is only one of many types of positions that the young child assumes in the natural exploration of the physical world. Adults tend to sit for the vast majority of each day in both work and play. There is much to be gained from moving often and finding physical ways to enhance the learning experiences.

The old saying `give a man a fish, feed him for a day, teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime’, is a perfect mantra for teaching the young human born in the early 2000s. Consider subject matter from the child’s point of view, figure out what you can do in your lessons that allow the child to use the three elements of self: head, heart, and hands. One of the greatest errors in current educational practice is the sole focus on the head learning, forcing young children to sit at tables for long days, wearying their spirits and graying their outlook. Early academic fatigue syndrome is rampant in our country and fortunately, almost 100 years ago, Rudolf Steiner illuminated a brilliant pathway of education that is more relevant today than ever before. Living artistic age-appropriate lessons, every day, naturally engaging and guaranteed to engender a life long love of learning.

Marsha Johnson, Spring 2009”

Thank you Marsha, for these words that I am holding in my heart,  thank you for being here and sharing with us,

Carrie

Homeschooling Multiple Children with Waldorf

If we readily agree that homeschooling is first and foremost about family, then there is no question that we home school with that in mind, and do not think,”Oh, I am going to have to send my two, three or four year old away” in order to home school my grades child.

I think Donna Simmons of Christopherus Homeschooling Resources puts it very succinctly in her “First Grade Syllabus”:  “Similarly, if homeschooling is about family, we won’t get into a state about how to teach our First Grader when the baby and pre-schooler are around.  We live together, we relax into our shared life – and we make it happen.”

However, there are several practicalities to be considered:

Little ones do need something to do while you are homeschooling the older children!  They are not just going to “hang out” while you completely focus your attention on your older child. 

If the practicalities involves children who are  walking through age 3:

  • Perhaps activities especially for them could center on a few songs or finger plays for them to start the morning and then setting them up with completely repetitive sensory tasks such as playing with water or sand in a sensory table, pushing a small cart, digging, pouring.
  • Little ones may need protection from eating of block crayons and your older children may need  protection of the destruction of main lesson books.   The way you organize your schoolroom and what supplies you bring down when will be paramount.
  • Needless to say, it will be difficult and dangerous to have your small child zipping through your house or outside without you there, so thinking about the physical set-up of your space is very important.
  • You may schedule snack time if your little one is eating solids and  if eating keeps them occupied.  More intense work with the older one may be a great time to nurse the little one.
  • Do not underestimate the power of homeschooling outside if that is a possibility!
  • How about scheduling some of the more intense things during nap time or at night if your older child gets to stay up later than a younger child?  You are home, you can be flexible.  Your home school does not have to function within the hours of a typical Waldorf school.
  • How about enlisting help of another adult – what role does Dad have in your home school?  Is there a teenager or preteen that could be a Mother’s Helper for a few hours each week who could watch the baby or toddler while you are also at home doing something more intense with your older child?
  • There are also many websites with ideas of things for toddlers to do during “Class Times” – these include making “I Spy” kinds of sealed bottles with sand and small objects inside to rotate around and look for;  sticking a lot of tiny  stickers to fill up a small space.  (Okay, these are not especially Waldorf-y, but many mainstream websites have ideas such as these :).   Other ideas for very small children may include playing with fluffs of wool, baskets of sticks and pinecones and silks.  If you have not seen “Toymaking with Children”, this is a great book to check out regarding how to make toys your children will play with from birth up!

If the practicalities are stemming around a three or four year old and up:

  • They may be ready to start on a rhythm themselves of circle time, a story with puppetry or modeling, and some practical work.  Perhaps you could do this in the morning first thing so they feel as if they have done something special for the day.
  • Many families start their mornings with a walk or being outside in nature to really get that energy out first.
  • A special box of toys and things that only comes down when  you do school (where the things in it rotate on a day-by-day basis) is often appreciated.
  • Again, homeschooling outside and being flexible with the times you teach some of the more intense material is helpful.

A special consideration that arises with families using Waldorf is this notion that the younger one must be so protected that if a 4 year old is torturing us to learn to write a few letters we ignore, if our six year old wants a main lesson book, we ignore, a four or six year old cannot hear the older ones’ stories. Rubbish; a heap of rubbish I say!  This may irritate some people, but here is what I think:

Yes, the stories in the curriculum is going to speak most deeply to the child when the child is at that point – in other words, Saint stories will speak most deeply to the 8 year old second grader, Old Testament stories will speak most deeply to  the 9 year old third grader – but if they hear it before then, it is generally okay (Norse myths are rather intense and may be an exception).

Yes,  if a four year old who wants to learn to read and write you should be directing them into other bodily activities, but you may also decide to teach to her to give her a piece of paper and  a crayon to scribble and pretend to write.  If she is extremely persistent and undeterred, perhaps you teach her to write her initials or her name and she may be perfectly satisfied with that and not wanting more after that.  We must respect the intelligence of Steiner’s seven year cycles, but sometimes a four year old really is happy to learn to write just an initial, and then they are totally  happy and able to move onto other things.  Please DO NOT take this out of context and report I am saying you should teach your four year old how to learn to read and write – you should NOT.  But sometimes I feel it is okay to loosen up a bit so the child can move on if they are extremely persistent.  Direct them into their bodies, come up with projects for them to do, but it probably is also natural that in their imitative phase they will want to imitate an older sibling writing.

A six year old may have a Main Lesson Book that he may write in if he feels like it, and when he goes through the First Grade when he is seven he will enjoy the fairy tales and pictorial approach to the letters whether he can write all his letters before hand or not!  And if he doesn’t want to write in his Main Lesson Book that is okay as well.  The point is that the curriculum speaks to where the child is in their soul development.

We have to be careful to make Waldorf work for us in the home environment, not against us!  We have to understand and respect the seven year cycles, but also respect that Waldorf at home is not Waldorf at school. 

While it would be lovely to have the entire circle time, stories, poems, songs memorized, I have also mentioned several times that mothers write things out and place it between two sheets of watercolor painted paper as their “Special Book.”  Donna Simmons talks about this extensively in her work, please see her website and books for more details. 

You can use an open and go syllabus; it is okay!

Most importantly, relax.  You need to know what is taught when and WHY there, but you can tailor Waldorf to your family and to the stages your children are in.  Your children will not be little forever; again, make Waldorf work for you in your home environment and not against you.

You can do this!

Carrie