Glorious September

Welcome, September! This is one of my favorite months because it is a month of new beginnings, which I love. Hopefully cooler weather here in the deep South, harvest, leaves turning colors, long walks and bike rides, apples and pumpkins, acorns, getting the house organized for fall, searching for things to make for the holidays, fall decorating!  So many wonderful things to love about September! 

September often seems to be about new beginnings.  Here the school children have been back to public school about a month, so perhaps it is not “new”, but  it still has that feel to me and my Northern upbringing (where we always started school the day after Labor Day) , that it is a time of possibility and change.

Last year at this time, we had had a horse that had died recently plus two who had gone to other barns due to owners moving them or leasing situations, and it had been a tad quiet. This year we have a new little two year old named Toast and I love him so! He is sweet and inquisitive and just all the things you want in a little two year old! Winter annuals will go in soon, and I am hoping to put in some fall vegetables. I have no bees left, which is very sad, and I am trying to decide do I want to start again in the spring. Hope springs eternal I guess.

For me, September is also a time of contemplation as we head into the mood of Michaelmas. Some of you may know it as The Feast of St. Michael and All Angels. It is celebrated on September 29 in the Western Church and for those in Waldorf Education, and it is celebrated by the Eastern Church on November 8. It is truly a time of prayer, meditations, new impulses and an idea of serving others and changing the future.

I love this festival of Michaelmas as one that illuminates the soul into the winter, takes up the challenges in front of us as we wind our way ahead in the dark to help us find that small space of courage and bravery that lets us know we are not defeated yet. We have not given up yet. Imagine a humanity where this was the theme before us of overcoming, of bringing new into the world. I may be attacked along the way of this new birth and new bringing, but I am not decimated. I can move forward.

There is a beautiful poem in the book “All Year Round” on page 129 that could make a particularly lovely blessing for this time of year and you could modify it as you wish:

Thanks to our mother, the earth, which sustains us;

Thanks to the rivers and streams and their water;

Thanks to the corn and the grain fields that feed us;

Thanks to the herbs which protect us from illness;

Thanks to the bushes and trees and their fruiting;

Thanks to the moon and the stars in the darkness;

Thanks to the sun and his eye that looks earthward;

Thank the Great Spirit for all of his goodness.

Adapted from an Iroquois Indian address of thanksgiving

Here are a few things we are celebrating:

Labor Day – September 7   ( I am working)

The Nativity of St. Mary – September 8 

Holy Cross Day – September 14

Autumn Equinox – September 22 – You can see my Autumn Pinterest Board for ideas!

The Feast of St. Michael and All Angels – September 29.  This is one of my favorite celebrations in the church and at home!  You can see my MIchaelmas Pinterest Board for some ideas!

The season of Michaelmas, for me, really lasts from a few weeks before Michaelmas until a week or so before Halloween.  In honor of this occasion, I usually re- read the words of Rudolf Steiner from his lectures  collected and entitled, “Michaelmas and the Soul- Forces of Man”  In the fourth lecture, he relates the four major festivals of the year:  Michaelmas, Christmas, Easter and St. John’s.  He says, “ Easter: death, then resurrection; Michaelmas: resurrection of the soul, then death. This makes of the Michael Festival a reversed Easter Festival. Easter commemorates for us the Resurrection of Christ from death; but in the Michael Festival we must feel with all the intensity of our soul: In order not to sleep in a half-dead state that will dim my self-consciousness between death and a new birth, but rather, to be able to pass through the portal of death in full alertness, I must rouse my soul through my inner forces before I die. First, resurrection of the soul — then death, so that in death that resurrection can be achieved which man celebrates within himself.”

You can read these four lectures for yourself here:  http://wn.rsarchive.org/Lectures/MichSoul/MiSoul_index.html  There is also this really interesting collection of articles, lectures, verses and stories all about Michaelmas available in  Waldorf Journal Project #15, edited by David Mitchell.  You can find that here:   http://www.waldorflibrary.org/Journal_Articles/WJP15.pdf

The Home Mood:

To me, the fall becomes a time of turning inward; a time of gratitude and reflection.  How do my words, my actions, reflect my gratitude toward my Creator and toward my life?  How do I interact with others in order to show this?  There is a quote I often think about from Dr. Rudolf Steiner that talks about this. He says;

The cultivation of this universal gratitude toward the world is of paramount importance.  It does not always need to be in one’s consciousness, but may simply live in the background of the feeling life, so that, at the end of a strenuous day, one can experience gratitude, for example, when entering a beautiful meadow full of flowers……And if we only act properly in front of the children, a corresponding increase in gratitude will develop within them for all that comes to them from the people living around them, from the way they speak or smile, or the way such people treat them.”  Rudolf Steiner from “A Child’s Changing Consciousness As The Basis of Pedagogical Practice”

Gratitude is such an important mood to create in the home. I think this creation can be tangible,  like those gratitude jars or going around the table at night and sharing something we have gratitude for…those are wonderful in their own way, but I think creating a  true mood of gratitude in the home actually is a much harder and deeper task. 

How do I really permeate this mood and carry it, even when things are overwhelming, is for this season of overcoming and courage as we head toward the longer nights of Winter. I think this is especially pertinent for those of us with teenagers and young adults who often are in the throes of figuring out who they really are, what turn their life is going to take as they launch, and perhaps now in the economic and world times we live in. How can we help them best as they try to navigate it all without decades of experience and in times where things are often so different than what they were? It can be a daunting time requiring inner strength on the part of the parent to really hold.

I think prayer comes to the forefront if that is in your spiritual tradition. I have never prayed as hard as I do now for my young adults and all the things they face. Even knowing from a certain perspective that they are made for these times, it can still be daunting. Teaching them deeper joy in the midst of transitions is something valuable that they still can learn from us! The teaching and guiding is not over and in many ways they need us more now than they did when they were small. I also use many affirmations and place that positive energy out into the world on their behalf. This fall, I am making a prayer board to have a tangible place for all the prayers and gratitude.

Ideas for the Home:

  • The seasonal table is transitioning to yellows with dried flowers, seed pods, bunches of oats or wheat or corn that are dried, cornucopias, nuts, acorns, leaves and little “helicopters.” If you have grown children, you can still make a seasonal table and decorate for fall for yourself!
  • I am going through and taking stock of fall and winter clothes and purging what we do not need.
  • Fall menu planning – a time of chili, soup, stew, warming dishes. I eat a lot of plant based dishes, so beans are coming to a forefront.
  • Crafting – I have some autumn crafting ideas on my Pinterest board, but I think I am going to start with Michaelmas crafts  and autumn lanterns. And of course, I am already thinking of Christmas.

Ideas for Celebrating this Month with Littles:

Ideas for Celebrating this Month With Older Children:

Ideas for Celebrating this Month With Teens:

  • Find great theater, museum, and festival events to attend
  • Longer hiking, camping, and backpacking trips
  • Bake and cook fall dishes
  • Work on fall organizing and cleaning
  • Stargazing
  • Find new activities outside the home that your teen will adore
  • Find  new knitting, crocheting, sewing, woodworking and woodcarving ideas to try

Homeschooling and Working:

Work has been very busy both with pelvic health and pediatric physical therapy patients and lactation families. I have been searching for an office space to no avail, so for now I will keep doing mobile visits.

Homeschooling our eleventh grader, our last high schooler, has been going along – also busy! He is still in Sea Scouts, and was gone to Scout camp to teach aquatics for a month this summer. It felt long to not see him for that month, but I guess that is a precursor as to what is to come as we look at colleges this year. Our oldest most likely will be moving out of state in January, so that is exciting and we are already working into our plans how and when to leave the farm to go visit her. Our middle child got a job that is ten minutes away, and with the cost of living it is hard to find even a place to rent, so perhaps placing a second little home on our property would be helpful. We had a trailer on our farm when we moved here but it was falling down and we had to remove it, but hopefully we could be grandfathered in to put something else in that spot since the septic and power and everything is there. We will see! That is going to be something working with the county.

What are your September plans? If you blog or on social media, please leave a link in the comments below so we can follow each other’s plans!

Blessings,
Carrie

Glorious April

I love the beautiful apple blossoms of April, the budding of the blueberry bushes, the greening of the farm. It’s my husband’s absolute favorite time of year, and I love it too. I half expect to see ducklings wandering across our farm or some other baby animal!

We already celebrated Easter on April 5 and now we are in Eastertide, enjoying fifty days of Eastertide until Pentecost. Eastertide also has its own little festivals such as Thomas Sunday as I wrote this last Sunday, and so on. So many wonderful things to contemplate this Eastertide. The world is a difficult place for many right now, and I am often in a place of doubt as to how things will turn out for our children and their children. Yet, we persist on and draw from our inner strength and the creation of stability for our families and ourselves.

This month, here are a few favorites to ponder:

These are a few of my favorite things for small children:

These are a few of my favorite things for grades-age children:

  • Spring handwork – wet felting, making beautiful spring crafts
  • Movement outside and exploring nature
  • Adjusting rhythm to the seasons, but sticking to strong awake, rest and bedtimes, along with regular nourishing whole foods mealtimes.

These are a few of my favorite things for teens:

**Exploring new interests and possibilities for summer. There are many wonderful camps for the summer. Sometimes by age thirteen or fourteen, the appeal of going to camp dissipates and sometimes it doesn’t, so you can carefully observe your child. It can be hard to know how hard to push.

** Sleep! A lot of teens really need sleep over the summer as they tend to grow over the summer a lot!

Our teen is looking at being away part of the summer working at a scouting camp. This should be a lot of fun and a great way to spread his wings.

These are a few of my favorite things for my own inner work:

  • In the past I had created a Sacred Hour – half to be spent in personal study, and half to be spent with our children in sharing the Saints, the Bible and Anglican traditions. This Eastertide, I plan to devote some time to Anglican Studies and also using the Venite App for daily readings.  I am feeling very happy about this. I am interested in reading this book if I could find it cheaper than Amazon: https://a.co/d/0bmsWOou
  • (This is one way we incorporated Spiritual Studies into our homeschooling. https://theparentingpassageway.com/2016/04/17/spiritual-studies-in-the-episcopalanglican-homeschool/)
  • There are a lot of changes happening right now in my career life, and I have been contemplating the imagery of the mustard seed. What mountains am I facing, what small seeds am I being asked to grow and nuture? It seems like a good thing to contemplate in the spring.
  • I have been thinking a lot about this time in general. I will be 56 in August, and biography and development is still at work in my life. https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/04/27/more-inspirations-from-tapestries-ages-49-56/. I did back posts on all the different biographical stages, and you might enjoy those. Happy to link them in the comments if anyone is interested!

What are you celebrating this month, creating space for, planning?

Warmly,
Carrie