The Winter Solstice descends us into darkness and asks us to rise again, to find what gives us light, and to find what light we can give into the world. Many of us are looking at Christmastide with renewed anticipation of generosity, light, kindness, love, compassion and bringing this into the world, beginning with ourselves and our own families.
What brings you light?
How can you give light (compassion, kindness, love, generosity) to yourself?
How can you give light (compassion, kindness, love, generosity) to your family and others?
This is the fourth week of Advent – Christmastide begins soon. This is the week that focuses on the light of mankind. This could include creating/placing people on the Nativity Scene (some place the shepherds out this week if St. Mary and St. Joseph are already out); baking gingerbread people, doing beautiful acts of kindness for those who need it most, thanking the workers of your community – postal people, fire people, police, garbage collectors, teachers, mentors, instructors, and honoring the people who are bringing light to the world and striving for all of humanity.
Christmastide is a wonderful season that begins on Christmas Day and continues until the eve of Epiphany. Freya Jaffke, in her wonderful book, “Celebrating the Festivals With Children”, writes:
“During the twelve or thirteen Holy Nights that follow Christmas, the events of Christmas continue to resonate; and it is a lovely custom for children if candles are lit each day, with singing, music making and perhaps a reading. This period is set apart from the rest of the year, and can be a time when we gather our strength for the year ahead. Nothing urgent needs to be done, and we can really take time for things. Children are deeply satisfied if mother or father sits down beside them with some craftwork, or perhaps join in a game now and then. In contrast to the summer when we like going outdoors, we feel very comfortable at home in the warmth – apart from winter walks and the fun of snow when it comes.”
We can celebrate the twelve days of Christmastide with children by using candles or a ring with twelve hearts or a simple Advent type calendar adapted to the twelve days of Christmas. This becomes a nice way to bring children down gently from Christmas and to continue the joy and wonder society too often associates with just a single day. Instructions to make a Christmas ring can be found in both “All Year Round” and “Celebrating Irish Festivals”. There are instructions to make a “postcard” calendar for the twelve days of Christmastide, each window representing a month of the year, ie, the first card would represent January and be opened on the first day of Christmastide, the second card would represent February and be opened on the second day of Christmas.
Many blessings to you,