Challenges with the four-year-old has come up on three separate lists I am on, so I tried to round up some helpful posts for you all:
The ever-popular “defiance” post: https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/09/16/a-few-fast-words-regarding-defiance-in-children-under-the-age-of-6/
Gentle Discipline:
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2008/10/16/gentle-discipline-as-authentic-leadership/
“Command, Don’t Demand” – not sure why the permalink says what it says:
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2008/10/20/getting-past-fear/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2008/10/22/developing-healthy-boundaries/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2008/10/26/big-tools-for-the-big-picture/
A good read for many of you trying to replace another parenting style with gentle discipline:
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2008/10/29/top-10-must-have-tools-for-gentle-discipline/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/01/16/irritation-points-for-parents-of-children-birth-age-4/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/04/30/help-my-child-doesnt-seem-to-know-right-from-wrong/
Here are some very specific to the four-year-old:
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/09/09/more-about-social-experiences-for-the-four-year-old/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/09/05/realistic-expectations-for-the-four-year-old/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/08/05/parenting-the-high-needs-older-child/
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/06/03/more-about-the-four-year-old/
Scroll down to the end for some tips of how to handle the four-year-old year:
https://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/02/04/fantastic-four-year-old/
Thanks,
Carrie
I need this. I’ve got it opened for reading through the links I haven’t already read when I don’t have a babe at my feet.
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Can someone please help me find the link I’m looking for. It was a link that showed what you children hear, feel etc in reaction to your interactions with them, such as yelling, threatening them etc. I just loved it, it made me cry and I wanted to share it with others. Thank you so much. I’d really appreciate it.
This one? Scroll down a little: https://theparentingpassageway.com/2010/05/23/changing-our-parenting-language/
Blessings,
Carrie