Beauty of April

I am looking forward to Easter and a lovely Eastertide. It seems to me as if the land is awakening from slumber and the signs of life are so encouraging – the apple tree blossoms, the greening of the pastures, the spring frolicking of the horses. It’s a beautiful place to be.

This month has things worth celebrating! This feeling, along with gratitude, is something to really hold on to in these tight economic times. I think our grown children feel pretty uncertain about the future with the way the economy is. It’s hard to make ends meet, even as one young adult has a good job, and our other child working in a niche industry. Our fifteen year old isn’t quite there yet with having to think about all of that, and I am happy for him to be in high school land for a little longer. The advantages we have as present parents to be able to talk about finances and how to make life flow with our children cannot be overstated. I am so happy all of you are helping to guide your children so well. It’s really invaluable!

Our main festival dates in our family this month include:

13- Palm Sunday

Holy Week

20- Easter Sunday and the start of Eastertide

23- St. George

25- St. Mark

29- St. Catherine of Siena

and I am looking ahead to Ascension Day (Thursday, May 29th) and the Rogation Days that precede Ascension Day ( the Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday prior to Ascension Day).  There is also a Novena of 9 days that begins on Ascension Day and ends on the Eve of Pentecost.  Pentecost is June 8th! Seems like far away, doesn’t it? Do you have summer plans already?

The other thing to look forward to is Screen Free Week the first week of May! Do you celebrate this? https://screenfree.org/how-to-celebrate/

These are a few of my favorite things this month for my family:

  • Since we will be in Easter and Eastertide here,the  dyeing of eggs, thinking of the Paschal candle and light in our home, indoor dish Easter gardens, Easter carols (yes, they are real!) and attending church are in my heart, This is growing my own garden in my heart.
  • Gardens outside as well – especially leading up to Rogation Days which is a wonderful time to have seeds, gardening tools and homesteads blessed.
  • Spring cleaning, decluttering, and moving ahead with some simple decorating I have wanted to do in our home. We recently built an additional bathroom upstairs, but the amount of projects left at the farm is a bit mind-boggling.

These are a few of my favorite things for small children:

These are a few of my favorite things for grades-age children:

  • Spring handwork – wet felting, making beautiful spring crafts
  • Movement outside and exploring nature
  • Adjusting our rhythm to the seasons, but sticking to strong awake, rest and bedtimes, along with regular nourishing whole foods mealtimes.

These are a few of my favorite things for teens:

**Exploring new interests and possibilities for summer. There are many wonderful camps for the summer. Sometimes by age thirteen or fourteen, the appeal of going to camp dissipates and sometimes it doesn’t, so you can carefully observe your child. It can be hard to know how hard to push.

** Sleep! A lot of teens really need sleep over the summer as they tend to grow over the summer a lot!

These are a few of my favorite things for my own inner work:

In our family:

  • I love to get the vast bulk of my planning done over the summer. Our youngest is in a classical hybrid high school and will be a sophomore in the fall. The singular focus is to get him ready for university and for possible military service, which is his goal right now. So legally we are homeschooling, but I feel as if my planning is done as the off days are following the plans laid out by the hybrid school. Bittersweet!
  • We do have a little work to do in writing over the summer as our high schooler needs to be a bit better in that area.
  • Our oldest two children are adults and we are glad to see them frequently.

Happiest of Spring to you and your family,

Carrie

Hi Friend!

I am so very glad you are here and welcome to The Parenting Passageway. I wanted to share a little about me for those of you who are new to this page.

I was born and raised in NY but have spent most of my decades in the deep south, where I feel most at home on our equine farm. The farm was a pandemic move, and it is still under lots of renovation as little by little we work towards bringing it to life. We have horses, boarding for horses, dogs, cats, bees (and no chickens! My husband isn’t a fan). I actually didn’t grow up with horses at all, but I started to learn about horse care as all of the children rode. I love the nutrition and health aspects of taking care of horses and am hoping to ride more this year. It’s never too late to do something new!

I have spent decades as a pediatric and pelvic health physical therapist, a board certified lactation consultant, and as a volunteer breastfeeding counselor. Currently I work mainly as a pelvic health physical therapist and as a lactation consultant and I divide my time off the farm pretty evenly between those endeavors.

Waldorf Education is such a developmentally appropriate education and I have loved it for decades. Two of our children are now graduated and off on their own with only our son left at home. I earned a certificate in Anthroposophy and the Arts from Antioch University, which was the precursor at the time to Waldorf teacher training. I have documented nearly every block I taught for every grade throughout educating all three of our children, and I hope you can benefit from the mistakes and successes I have had! I love supporting development!

I am a writer, musician, artist, a cook experimenting with preserving and plant-based recipes, a wanna be gardener , a Christian, hopefully a good friend, and a health thriver after a potentially fatal disease last year, and a big fan of acupuncture. Many weeks,I struggle with finding time to work out ,and sometimes feel like I could do a better job taking care of myself in the busy seasons of life, (and of course there is always a lot to be done on a farm). I love hearing from my readers all around the world, and I thank you! I am not a big traveler, but in my head I have gone many places in just talking to my readers.

I am so glad you are here, and I love learning from you all. In this Eastertide, I hope we can grow together. I would love to hear what is going on in your corner of the world. ❤

Much love,

Carrie