The section of this book entitled “Growth” has three different sections to look at. The first section is entitled “Protection and Leadership” and begins with a poem from “Leaves of Grass” about how a child went forth and became the first object he looked upon….leaving author Stephen Sagarin to write that our children are being pressured to grow up too quickly. They become consumers from an early age and are being asked by advertisers to grow up faster, to buy products, and that without these products they should not be confident.
He writes, “….teens are in that in-between place, that nowhere land in which they have enough freedom, power, maturity, mobility, and intelligence to make choices, but not the developed judgment to always make wise or rational decisions.”
Side Note : I was talking to a high school sophomore and just newly graduated high schooler today and I was telling them that France passed a ban that bans smartphones and tablets for kids between 3 and 15 years of age (I believe just at school). They said they wished that was the case here. “It would have to be a law though,” they both said, “Because if some people have it (phones) and some don’t, that’s when there are problems. But it’s not good for your brain.” Even teenagers know that it isn’t great for them to consume, but they feel pressure to keep up with what other teens are watching. This conversation was interesting timing, considering reading this essay!
The author goes on to point out that America’s image around the world is essentially adolescence and youth, and perhaps this points the way toward our jobs (as teachers, as parents) should be to protect children from growing up too quickly. He points out that Rudolf Steiner spoke about this in “Balance in Teaching,” mentioning protection, enthusiasm, reverence as ways to provide good teaching for children.
But protection doesn’t last forever. At some point it our job to help children go through adolescence and go on to become thoughtful, ethical, creative adults (my paraphrase). Rudolf Steiner wanted education to help develop a “free human being.” Sagarin quotes a passage from “The Spiritual Ground of Education” and talks about how adolescents need freedom of their own intelligence and how without the assistance of adults, they may not only flounder or flail, but not survive. The ages between 12 and 16 are a “vulnerability gap” – named this by famed Master Waldorf teacher and author Betty Staley. This is the time to encourage freedom but ALSO responsibility.
Section 2 of “Growth” is “Growth and Learning in Three Easy Graphs!” “When you are very young, and most of your energy or life force is going into your physical growth, you don’t have as much energy available for intellectual growth. But, as your physical growth slows, you are increasingly capable of turning your mind to whatever you choose.” The last graph neatly shows how these areas intersect. While sometimes Waldorf students are seen as “behind” in the early years or early grades due to beginning academics around age 7, they typically catch up and surpass their peers around fourth grade and accelerate their learning in adolescence, where it should be accelerated. This puts the emphasis, in my opinion, upon the health of the whole child.
What did you think about this section?
Blessings,
Carrie
I just received the book on your recommendation and look forward to reading it along with you . I am a homeschool mom of a 12 year old boy and this conversation is over the target. We have been mostly media free and at this point still computer free for our homeschool. We started out in a Waldorf School but left after first grade feeling as if we couldn’t live our values in a school setting. I am blessed with the opportunity to dive deeper into Waldorf education and the vast body of writings to inform my personal growth and reinforcement of the importance of strengthening community bonds and increasing time in nature . I am grateful for your writing specifically and this is my first comment! Thank you so much for bringing us so much goodness over the years !
HI Mindy!
Thank you so much for being here! I really appreciate it and hope you love this book!
Blessings – Carrie
I really enjoyed the three graphs because so many struggle to understand what true growth looks like through different lenses. And the overlay of all three is such a great visual to see how they all dance together.
A word that really stood out for me was “protection”. I’ve been approached by many well meaning individuals over the years of being a parent who accused me of being OVERprotective because our family did things differently. Often followed by “they are going to do it eventually anyway”. Sagarin’s opening where he discusses pushing independence in young children and then effectively stunting their growth in adolescents connects with these comments. I tried my best to make sure my children were protected from things until the timing was right for them to experience them. And the result so far has been two teens that very clearly articulate to their peers and adults where their boundaries are. There is an importance in protecting those early years, and the dignity that childhood holds. Sagarin (and Betty Staley!) understand that!
This is such a great comment, Marina! Love your insights and thank you so much for sharing them here!
Sincerely
Carrie