I like to have a little time over each summer to work on projects – decluttering and cleaning the house; homeschooling and planning for school in the fall; routines and habits that need to be established; or sometimes something even bigger and more life-changing. You can see the last summer parenting project that I asked readers to pick up on here in 2010: http://theparentingpassageway.com/2010/06/07/a-summer-parenting-project-for-you/
This year, I have two separate threads of projects I am hopeful that mothers will want to be a part of and participate in this summer.
One is the call for greater self-care and health. Mothers everywhere, often who have small children for very long hours with no extended family to help, need encouragement to take care of themselves. Continue reading
For several years now I had been in this period of life where things were sometimes light, sometimes dark, but usually just a mingled grey. It started with overwhelm as things slowly happened one after another, built up and then moved into this climax of life: people passed away that I loved and things that I loved died. I hung on to being in the now, because the future seemed far away and murky with nothing there to really grasp or see. I also felt like I was in the “middle” a lot, and just didn’t feel strongly enough to “really” fit anywhere. All I had was the faith that God had a plan for me, and perhaps, yes, even a plan for the me that I am outside of my own children and family. I felt like He was calling me to something, but I had no idea what.
In this Eastertide, in this very first inkling with the seedlings of the earth, several things started mingling in my head and my heart….It started with Continue reading
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you!
My own mother died after a very a long illness when I had just turned eight, and I was raised by my paternal grandmother. She had three sisters,and the four of them were very, very close. I also had an amazing maternal grandmother. I was very fortunate to have all of them speaking into my life.
The grandmother who raised me wrote this in honor of mothers everywhere for a mother-daughter banquet at her church long, long before I was born and I share it here with you today: Continue reading
Anchor: a person or thing that can be relied on for support, stability, or security; mainstay: Hope was his only anchor.
When we work to become the author of own family life, we take on the authority to provide our spouse and children and ourselves stability. An effective way to do this is through the use of rhythm. If you have small children, it takes time to build a family rhythm that encompasses the year. If you are homeschooling older children and also have younger children not yet ready for formal learning, the cycle of the year through the seasons and through your religious year becomes the number one tool you have for family unity, for family identity, for stability.
I wrote about my homeschool planning method of marking seasonal and liturgical ideas down for each month in past posts. I have written monthly anchor points posts for August, September and October and now would like to extend our mood of celebration into May!
May is such a beautiful month, Continue reading
Holy Week is upon us! I wanted to share a few ideas with you all about celebrating Lent and Holy Week. Lent is such a beautiful time. I love what Orthodox Christian priest Anthony Coniaris writes in his book, “ Making God Real in the Orthodox Christian Home”:
It is significant that Lent happens to coincide with Spring in the northern climes. I think there is a wonderful lesson for us in this happy coincidence. Lent should be for all of us a period of placing ourselves in the position where the best things can happen for us. That position for Orthodox Christians is the presence of Christ, where the Sun of His love and power can shine into our arid souls to bring about a real awakening, a real springtime of the soul.
Here are some brief suggestions for celebrating Lent and Holy Week: Continue reading
With interest, I read this 35 paged report called “Putting Children First” available here: http://www.savechildhood.net/putting-children-first.html. This is a United Kingdom publication, but the challenges these children are facing are similar to here in the United States:
Young children today are subject to a range of cultural pressures that were simply unknown to previous generations. Family life has significantly changed, they live in a rapidly advancing digital world, they are much less trusted and more controlled, they have fewer freedoms and significantly less access to nature, they are highly vulnerable
to the dangers of commercialisation and sexualisation and the quality and depth of their learning in the early years has moved from being intrinsically connected to family and community to become increasingly seen as primarily a preparation for later schooling. Child wellbeing in the UK has been the subject of increasing concern. Currently one
in ten children is being diagnosed with a mental health disorder,4 one in three is clinically obese,5 one in 12 of our adolescents deliberately harm themselves and nearly 80,000 children and young people currently suffer from severe depression including 8,000 children aged under 10 years of age. This is a deeply worrying situation that needs to be
tackled head on.
We are dealing with a pandemic crisis in childhood. If this was bubonic plague attacking our children, the government and every citizen would be concerned. But to hear of isolated cases of a mental health disorder in a teenager, or isolated cutting and additive behaviors, isolated cases of obesity within one area – no one seems to really be paying that much attention on a national level. There have been different movements in the United States focusing on different aspects of children’s health and education, but no one movement that encompasses the many branches needed to bring healing to this generation has taken place. I have not seen any public health campaigns for the things that I think would make the most lasting impressions upon helping our children.
What would it look like to really help our children get the best start? Here some ideas, but there are certainly many more areas so feel free to add yours in the comment box below! Continue reading
I love this post, (and the book referenced as well!): http://charmingthebirdsfromthetrees.blogspot.com/2014/03/make-most-of-beautiful-moments.html
This post stirred up a little bit of controversy on The Parenting Passageway’s Facebook page. It talks about banning hand-held devices for children under the age of 12 and why, including a chart regarding media by age at the end of the article. Check it out here: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/cris-rowan/10-reasons-why-handheld-devices-should-be-banned_b_4899218.html
The disturbing trends of kindergarten: http://tablet.olivesoftware.com/Olive/Tablet/GreenwichTime/SharedArticle.aspx?href=TGT%2F2014%2F02%2F23&id=Ar00907
And lastly, an article about teens and texting and how it ruins romance: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/katie-d-anderson/teen-texting-the-ruin-of-romance_b_3763576.html