31 Days to the Inner Rhythm of the Heart: Day Nineteen

Our 31 days to the inner rhythm of the heart, the root foundation of a house of peace, is in progress.  In the vein of those who are setting a New Year’s intention with “one word”, I offer the word of today to you: ho-hum.   Read on for more

Many mothers tell me they have boundaries, but the children rail against the boundaries, and then they end up yelling or giving in.  I am going to suggest to you that you are teaching your child how to guide him or herself; that is the ultimate goal of parenting.  You are also setting the tone in your home for the foundation of developmental change.  Parenting a teenager is much different than parenting a two-year –old (although some mothers have told me the teenaged years are the new two-year-old year!), but yet you are laying the foundation for the future in the early years.

Ho-hum, and learning to let go of your end of the rope, is such an important skill to learn. If you apply all the things we have talked about , and you are really spending time with your child and loving and connecting to your child with warmth (not just barking orders at them or yelling!), and you are consistent, fair and just with your boundaries, then the boundaries for the big things are there. Continue reading